There are two primary choices in life; to accept conditions as they exist, or accept the responsibility for changing them. - Denis Waitley
Bigbang! Bigbang! Bigbang! The HIT is ON and we are gradually moving on. Hope you are still on track? By now, you should have or at least be getting ready to register a domain name for the niche market of your choice. We won’t want to have anyone lagging behind.
However, I have something to share with you today that once well understood will help you through the rest of the training. It is about something we engage in every other day of our life …It also has the power to affect how well you make it through this training.
What could this be?
Someone ones defined “life as a catalog of choice.” No matter how you look at it Everything that you see around you today is only a reflection of the choices you made. It doesn’t matter whether they were consciously or unconsciously made …ones made they either stand to make or mar you.
Starting from the moment you wake up in the morning to the moment you go to bed at night, you are constantly making decisions. From wanting to sleep some more to finding an excuse that might just enable you stay at home or better still get up and go to work …Sometimes it even on something as simple as what to eat for breakfast, launch as well as dinner.
There are only a few things you do not have say to. Things like where you were born, what the colour of your skin should be? Who are to be your parent? …and a few others. Apart from this few things you are in control …Yes, you have the power to decide what you get from life.
Let think of it this way, why are you reading this blog? Why did you subscribe to our newsletters? Why join in the 90daysbigbang? You don’t have to learn internet marketing not to talk of becoming an internet marketer? You don’t even have to be rich? – Its all a thing of choice.
Yes, you made the choice to learn and become an internet marketer or perhaps all you ever wanted was just to make an extra cool cash to take care of some needs.
Now, Its up to you to make the choice to follow through the daily steps or let it drag on another day? You might even be tempted or pressured by situation to drop the whole idea though I don’t think that what you want to do however we can’t make that decision for you.
Why am I saying this? …You see in one of our advance training, someone recently called the office and opted to drop. According to him it was due to some reasons beyond his control. Why would you do that?
While I hate sounding negative, I also don’t love shying away from reality. Realities such as the negativity that seems to be facing us here in Nigeria. I mean the ones common to all. Things like power failure, internet connection and so on.
Most of us are already aware of what recent happened to “Rich Kid”. If you have not read about it, you may still want to give your own answer to the question posed by the post – “If you lost it all”
It might also interest you to know that back here in the office, we have been experience poor internet connection but we have refuse to allow any of these things stop the flow of our activity, though it has some effect on our work. We chose to be in charge.
The big question now is, “Can you stay positive even with all the negative happenings around you? This is still a choice for you to make.
You are the President of Your life. If only you can learn to master the process of choosing, you can take control of every aspects of your life. You have the choice to stay complaining or make the choice to turn things around.
You must accept the responsibility for everything that happens to you. If for any reason you are faced with frustration, challenges, just remember that you are in charge and whichever way you choose to react …its consequences will be the result of the life you will have to live.
You own yourself the responsibility to live a better life, your family is looking up to you. Whether you meet up with the demands or not, just bear in mind that to flee responsibility is in itself a choice.
No choice in itself is right or wrong but when you take the time to think through its effect, you get to see whether that’s what you wanted.
From my past experiences so far, I have learned that no matter what the situations may be, within us lies enormous power to change whatever it is we don’t like about our lives and situations. It may only take time but it can be done.
The way you choose to see the world creates your world. If you are not satisfied with something, don’t just sit there talking about it, rather choose to talk about the thing you like …seek for ways to change things, keep a positive mind, only by so doing will you be able to move on.
Finally, don’t let anything stop you from achieving your goals …always remember the REASON WHY you choose to be a part of this 90daysbigbang. You can make it as big as you want, If only you choose to.
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I like what you have said in your writeup, may the lord crown your effort with success, i know that one day i will meet you in personn. thanks
All lie within us,even if our believe are totally false,if we believe them,they will be true for us.Thanks for this inspirational post.
Sir, you are doing a great job.
keep it up.
This is truly the facts of life. We didn’t choose to be born or how to be born. But we all choose to live the way we like.
Whether we were born rich or poor, small or great, we all have equal opportunities to make or mar our lives. Time is so precious, that it is the determinal of our fortunes.
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Life is full of one story to tell good or bad and your perception makes the better of you in life.i join in the crusade of postive thinking which propel a positive active force of success,goodness,joy and progress. HAPPY DAYS AHEAD.
Life is a matter chioce ,my prayer for every one in this training is success.
you have being try your best ,remain for us to take action of what you are giving us.
We are masters of our destiny. we choose what we want to become.
difficult situations will surely arise, like the writer rightly said, it can be mastered.
God bless all bigbangers
Rich kid, everything about you is wisdom and so shall it continue and in jesus name we shall follow ur step and not dissapoint you
This is food for thought and i can only chip in the adage that says “No venture
no Gain” Thanks and God bless.
There is nothing that can be a better truth than the fact that where we are today is due to the choice we made yesterday and were we will be tomorrow will be due to our choice of today . This confirms that quote that we are the architect of our life. Thank you for this timely reminder and motivation.
LUCK they say is
L- Labour
U – under
C – correct
K – Knowledge
Burn your candle today and you shall get it in manifold tomorrow.
Heaven helps those who help themselves.
You are [today] what you think and do [yesterday].
No sweat, no sweet; nothing venture, nothing gain.
Condition/situation does not make a man, it merely reveal a man to himself/others as he/she is.
Great write up. Great things does not come easy. Something that will be great is always small in the beginning. Bigbangers, please don’t give up no matter what happens.If somebody like Rich and Alaeto are making it we too can make it. Read Isa 43: 1-3. I love and miss you all.
This is an exceptional and timely write-up for us. You are a motivator per excellence . Keep it up and Gob bless you
Lateef,
To a very large extent,your write up today is talking to me,thanks.
you speak like a genuis, and i hope you are one. i have for the past two months receiving your news letter and am so impress from what i have been reading i hope to meet you in lagos by this week thursday 22nd january 2009 or friday of it thanks and keep the good work on.
at time like this,decision greatly determines destiny.you are what you think of youself.
Thanks, it such an encouraging piece of write up coming at the right time and you wouldn’t understand how such has lifted my inner man this morning
God bless you and keep up the good work
This is really a food for thought for all of us. This write up actually inspires me. It really meet a need for me.Thanks for the inspiration. God bless.
while admiring the inauguration ceremony of the new president of the most powerful nation in the world- President Obama Barrack of USA ,I felt bold, stouthearted and refreshed, to know through your write-up that i too am President,the most important president in the world,The President of my life. Thanks.
Good talk my brother life is all about choice.
I discover new things about life everyday you write especially when you write to motivate.Life challenges are great,we just have to make our choice.I hope I will be steadfast this time,no m,atter what.Thank you Sir.
I want to join the internet marketing
Bros am so happy for you guys.pls i will like to jion u
Dear Lateef i just read about that you were robbed.I pray God will protect you and repay the lost items in thousand fold. Amen. Greetings from my son to you from Germany. GOD BLESS YOU.